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How to prevent aggression and reactivity

How Holistic Dog Training Methods Can Address, Prevent Aggression and Reactivity

90% of my clients hire me because they believe their dog is unpredictable, aggressive. 70% have hurt people or pets. 65% of dogs showed dangerous reaction towards their primary caregiver. Roughly 20% have had nipping or biting incidents that could have been avoided if caregivers were educated on the signals their dog sent them as a warning. 

Here are some dog bite facts from the AVMA:

▪Each year, more than 4.5 million people in the U.S. are bitten by dogs. Almost 1 in 5 people bitten by dogs require medical attention. 

▪Every year, more than 800,000 Americans receive medical attention for dog bites; at least half of them are children.

▪Children are, by far, the most common victims of dog bites and are far more likely to be severely injured.

▪Most dog bites affecting young children occur during everyday activities and while interacting with familiar dogs.

▪Senior citizens are the second most common dog bite victims.

At the first sign of reactive behavior, there are training methods that I use to correct it, but the best way to keep a dog from becoming one of these statistics is focusing on prevention before it’s too late. 

1 Prevention is The Best Medicine

Creating clear boundaries and limitations is the first step in curbing aggression. When a dog respects your physical and personal space, they are less likely to challenge it. 

When you respect your dog’s space, and this includes not picking them up or moving them without consent, they feel safe and understood, which decreases the likelihood of aggression. They also imitate their owner’s behavior, so “Do as I say, not as I do” never works with dogs. 

2 Earning Respect

Respect earned without force goes a long way in making your relationship with your dog a healthy one. It’s hard to be a bully when you’re happy. 

3 Spay And Neuter

Spaying or neutering your dog can help in certain situations, but it doesn’t deter reactive or aggressive behavior, contrary to popular belief. Aggressive tendencies have to already exist for the hormones to cause the dog to react. They merely exacerbate a problem. 

Finding those problems and correcting them before they surface is more productive because eventually they will appear regardless of spaying or neutering. They just might not be as severe. 

4 Proper Socializing

Socializing your dog is also a good way to prevent aggression. By letting your dog grow up around people and other dogs, you get them used to the way human society functions. 

When dealing with rescues, controlled socialization and interaction is important, but it’s also important with raising a puppy.  Dogs need to be taught at an early age about excitement, morals, and engagement control, so they can manage and control their own impulses as they age. 

5 Stress-Free Walk

Learning how to calmly walk your dog with a loose leash and no constraints like prong collars, harnesses, or soft leads can help your dog be less reactive. Quite often these types of tools are used incorrectly, or make pulling and reactivity even worse because they make the dog feel trapped in a situation that he wants to get out of. 

Many owners incorporate these products because their dog pulls with a regular collar, so education on proper leash techniques is important. 

Proper diet can also improve behavior in dogs just like it does in children. Additives, carbohydrates, and low-quality ingredients in packaged food can cause allergies, discomfort, hyperactivity, mood swings, distraction, and violent behavior. 

6 Training and Correction

While prevention is the key to minimizing the potential for aggression in your dog, there are training methods that work well to decrease or completely remove unwanted behaviors. Dog aggression is not just a dog problem, it’s a family problem as well.

 Both the dog and his caretakers need training. I always include a family systemic approach in my sessions, so everyone in the house, including the children, becomes aware that emotional energy can affect the whole family system.   

The most common reasons for dog aggression or reactivity are trauma, fear, medical issues, frustration, and miscommunication. I recommend that clients whose dogs have behavioral issues have them checked by a vet first to rule out any physical problems, if they haven’t had a recent checkup. If the dog is healthy, then I move on to finding the root of the problem. 

Almost all rescue dogs have trauma in one form or another, from abandonment, being touched or manipulated violently or without consent, being constrained, losing their home, and a number of other issues. 

Some dogs will react aggressively or have disputes because they feel like they don’t have an “out.” They are trapped by a leash or by their surroundings. Teaching them that they have other options, and giving them the opportunity to exercise those options, like walking away or going to a safe place in the yard or home, can counteract reactive tendencies. Most dogs don’t want to hurt anyone; they just want to make a scary situation go away.

7 Dogs with Human Problems

Many human behaviors may factor into bite situations. Here are a few examples:

Challenging food, water, or favorite object. Removing food from a dog, or appearing to intervene between a dog and its food or water, even inadvertently, may trigger reactive behavior in some dogs. The reaction can stem from a fear of starvation or lack of resources, and is a common reason for food aggression and crate reactivity.

Attacking (or perceived attacking) a dog or its companions, or encroaching on its territory. Dogs are family-oriented; they often have an instinct to defend themselves and anyone they consider family. They will often defend their territory, which may include areas they consider "theirs" or belonging to their family.

Aggressive behaviour is a typical feature of dogs and is important in nature for survival of individuals, their integration into pack, defence of territory, food or the young. Aggression and the related manifestations in humans and animals is an important philosophical, psychosocial, ethological and ethical issue on both human and subhuman level. - Folia veterinaria. , 2008, Vol.52, p.73

Attacks may be triggered by behaviors that are perceived as a threat, like a sudden unexpected approach or touch by a stranger, or inadvertently stepping on any portion of the dog's anatomy, like a paw or tail, or startling a sleeping dog. 

In particular, the territory that a dog recognizes as its own may not coincide with the property lines that its owner and the legal authorities recognize, such as a portion of a neighbor's backyard.

Gaining a dog’s trust as an authority and helping them to understand that you are taking care of the situation will “take them off the job” and remove their need to protect. 

8 Recognizing discomfort.

A sick, injured, or older dog may get cranky or over-reactive and develop a tendency to nip or bite. Communication can suffer when a dog doesn’t feel well. Have you ever been sick and snapped at a loved one because explaining something to them takes up too much energy? Dogs do the same thing. 

9 Recognizing insecurity or fear.

Like humans, dogs that feel insecure may ultimately turn and defend themselves against something they think is a threat. It’s common for people to not recognize a dog’s clear signs of fear or insecurity. 

Many bites happen because a person approaches and touches a dog who is signaling to them that they’re uncomfortable and don’t want to be petted.  The dog feels that when his warning signs aren’t respected, his only other option is to bite. 

10 proper Intervention when dogs fight.

When a human gets in the middle of a dog fight they can get a serious bite. There are a few methods that can be used to break up a dog fight that decrease the risks.

11 Avoiding Threatening body language or movement.

Directly staring into a dog’s eyes can sometimes make a dog feel threatened or can be perceived as an act of aggression, especially when a stranger does it. Moving too close to them or too quickly can also seem aggressive. 

Balanced dogs usually approach each other from the side to greet, rarely from the front, so making a beeline toward a dog can make them nervous. 

Dogs react when fearful, and may feel driven to attack out of self-defense, even when not, in fact, being "attacked". Speed of movement, noises, objects, or specific gestures like raising an arm or standing up may cause a reaction.

Many rescued dogs have been abused, and in some dogs, specific fears of men, women, skin coloring, and other features that recall past abusers are not uncommon. A dog that feels cornered or without recourse may attack the human that triggers their trauma. 

A dog may also perceive a hand reached out toward its head as an attempt to gain control of the dog's neck via the collar, which if done to by a stranger can easily provoke a defensive reaction, lIke growling, snapping, or biting. Dogs always go for the neck during a dogfight to control their opponent. 

12 Avoid inadvertently causing the dog to go into prey drive.

Dogs retain many of their predatory instincts, including hunting and chasing prey. Running away from a dog or behaving in a manner suggesting weakness may trigger predatory behaviors such as chasing or over-excitement, which can lead to an attack or bite. For example, the instinct to jerk one's hands upwards away from an inquisitive dog may cause a strong impulse to grab and hold.

13 Troubleshooting Frustration.

A dog that is already excited or aroused by an aggressive instinct from one source may use an available target to release its energy. An example would be a dog who is fence fighting and turns to attack one of its family members out of frustration. 


Sources:

www.avma.org/public/Pages/Dog-Bite-Prevention.aspx


Roman Gottfried is an internationally renowned Holistic Dog Training, Intuitive Healer and Dog/Human Relationship Coach. He works with dog parents worldwide to help their dogs reach their full potential, by teaching them the holistic philosophy of creating a healthy relationship with their dog. He sees clients both online and in-person in Phoenix, Arizona. Visit www.romansk9training.com for more information or to schedule an appointment.

Why The Alpha Theory Needs To Go

    Everytime I check my social media, I see the word “alpha” on dog pages that I’m a part of. I see people, including good dog trainers, say things like:


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 “Your dogs don’t respect you because they don’t see you as the alpha. If you don’t correct that, then they will take on that job,” 

 “You need to show your dog who’s the pack leader by forcing him into a submissive position.” 

“Your dog is aggressive because he’s trying to be the alpha.”

     The alpha theory is one of the most common ideas out there when it comes to dog training. It’s pushed by certain celebrity dog trainers, and there is a multimillion dollar industry built around the idea that we need to dominate our dogs to get them to respect us. There are dozens of television shows and hundreds of books that continue to perpetuate the myth of alpha theory to this day. 

The leading figure in the alpha-dominant theory was Schenkel’s 1947 “Expressions Studies on Wolves.” This is the study that gave rise to the now outmoded notion of alpha wolves. That concept was based on the old idea that wolves fight within a pack to gain dominance and that the winner is the “alpha” wolf. Today we understand that most wolf packs consist of a pair of adults called “parents” or “breeders,” (not “alphas”), and their offspring.

See www.wolf.org/wolves/learn/scientific/mech_pdfs/267alphastatus_english.pdf for more information.

     The problem is that everyone who bases their training on this theory is wrong. This isn’t a belief or opinion that I have, but the truth according to the guys who came up with the theory. Every researcher who has studied it since, including the ones who brought it into the mainstream public, verifies that their conclusions were incorrect.  

“Labeling a high-ranking wolf alpha emphasizes its rank in a dominance hierarchy. However, in natural wolf packs, the alpha male or female are merely the breeding animals, the parents of the pack, and dominance contests with other wolves are rare, if they exist at all. During my 13 summers observing the Ellesmere Island pack, I saw none. Thus, calling a wolf an alpha is usually no more appropriate than referring to a human parent or a doe deer as an alpha. Any parent is dominant to its young offspring, so "alpha" adds no information. Why not refer to an alpha female as the female parent, the breeding female, the matriarch, or simply the mother? Such a designation emphasizes not the animal's dominant status, which is trivial information, but its role as pack progenitor, which is critical information.”- Mech, L. David. 1999. Alpha status, dominance, and division of labor in wolf packs. Canadian Journal of Zoology 77:1196-1203.

Dr. L. David Mech talks about the terms "alpha" and "beta" wolves and why they are no longer scientifically accurate.

The Alpha Theory, In a Nutshell

     This fallacious theory was created by Swiss behaviorist Rudolph Schenkel(1).  In the 1930’s, Schenkel studied a captive pack of wolves that consisted of wolves from different zoos. The animals had never met before, so they hadn’t formed relationships. At the time, this was the primary way that researchers studied animal behavior. 

    It wasn’t that different than putting a bunch of strangers into a locked room with a finite amount of food and water and seeing what happens. They’re going to behave very differently than in the real world, but that’s what Schenkel based his findings on. He concluded that wolves fight for dominance, so that became the premise for alpha theory. 


 The Theory Takes Off

   

Schenkel's ideas became popular when other respected researchers like David Mech, who wrote a very successful book in the sixties called “The Wolf: Ecology and Behavior of an Endangered Species,”(2) included them in their books. Mech’s book discusses wolf behavior and Schenkels observation of an “alpha pair” that became the leaders of the pack. The term “alpha theory” was coined from that. 

     The idea of pairing this incorrect research with dog training was popularized by the Monks of New Skete in 1978.(3) They published a number of best selling books about using dominance in training. They created the forced alpha roll technique and shaking the dog by the scruff of the neck while lifting it off the ground. 

Whole Dog Journal has a great article about this. Here are a few of the monks suggestions to get your dog to behave:


“For modifying problem behaviors, Koehler’s books advocate the use of exceedingly harsh methods such as shock collars, slingshots (with BBs as pellets), hanging and helicoptering (lifting a dog off the ground by the choke chain and holding him there or swinging him around until he ceases resisting or goes unconscious), a wooden dowel inside a length of rubber hose (with which to hit the dog who is too heavy to hang or helicopter), and drowning (filling a hole with water and submerging the dog’s head until he is near unconsciousness, to teach him not to dig). Saunders was somewhat less extreme than Koehler, but still advocated routinely jerking, kicking and “cuffing” dogs.” (4)


     The monks continue to write books that promote the alpha theory, but they soften it up by saying that these techniques will help you to become your dog’s best friend. Unfortunately they are not only perpetuating a myth, but normalizing abusive behavior that can irrevocably harm dogs both physically and emotionally.  


Researchers Realize Their Mistake


     Most researchers who’ve studied wolves since, including David Mech, have come to a very different conclusion. Wolf packs are actually family groups, not dictatorships who fight for control and dominance. They consist of a pair of wolves who mate and have babies.(5

Just like human parents, they teach their children how to get along with each other and basic skills needed to get by in life. Just like human families, arguments happen, but there’s no fight for dominance. Everyone knows who the authorities are- the parents. 

     If your idea of being best friends with someone is choking or hitting them until they do what you want- like dominance theory proponents the Monks of New Skete suggest- maybe you need to rethink your social strategy. If you did that to a human, they would think you’re psychotic. 

There’s a good chance that if you do that to a dog, he’s probably obeying you because he thinks you’re psychotic too and he doesn’t want you to hurt him anymore. That’s not being a friend, it’s bullying someone into submission. It’s also incredibly disrespectful. 

     Aside from all this, wolves and dogs are completely different creatures. Studying wolves and applying what you’ve learned about their behavior to dogs isn’t much different than watching monkey behavior and creating a school for humans based on your observations. Research indicates that dogs and wolves genetically parted ways at least a hundred thousand years ago. 

     Dogs and humans have been hanging out together for over twenty thousand years and this has affected dog behavior in a big way.(6) I doubt they decided to become man’s best friend because we forced them to. The first man/dog interaction was most likely based on hunting. We would get a kill and throw them a few bits of meat or bone. 

     Don’t kid yourself; if you own a big dog, he can kill you if he wants to. If he wants the hamburger on your plate, he can just take it without asking, but in most cases, he won’t. He won’t because he chooses not to. Does he leave your burger alone because he respects you and wants to please you, or because he’s afraid you’re going to hurt him? 


The Story of Nicholas and Grandpa


    I have a client with a bulldog who became extremely aggressive toward her elderly father. Nicolas started out as a loving puppy, but everything changed when he was taken to a trainer who was a proponent of alpha/dominance theory. The trainer believed that a dog will only see a human as the authority if it’s forced into submission. Like many dogs, what should have been a fun learning experience for a puppy turned into a traumatic event that changed his behavior towards people. 

     He was fine after the training, aside from developing food aggression, until cold weather came and my client’s father started wearing a jacket with pockets. Nicolas would try to attack him, so they had to move him to the basement. He began to show aggression toward people in general after that, along with going after other animals in the home. 

     It took them awhile to figure out that the trainer had used a shock collar and kept the remote in his pocket so the dog wouldn’t see it. It appears that Nicolas started to equate a man wearing a jacket with pain, so when he saw her father, he was simply trying to protect himself. Other forms of physical punishment were used on him as well, but the extent of it is unknown. 

     He stopped trusting his owners and the animals around him as a direct result of the adverse methods of correction he experienced in the training facility. The jacket triggered his trauma. The food aggression might also have developed as a result of the trainer withholding food. 

    There are lots of dogs like Nicolas who can  become reactive and even aggressive when subjected to this type of training, but it’s popular because it’s effective for many dogs. 

It’s similar to corporal punishment when raising a child, with the same results; you’re using fear, control, and pain to get an emotional being to do what you want. Beating a child will also get them to comply, but there’s a good chance they’ll hit you back when they get big enough to do so. 

    Not all alpha theory trainers use what I consider to be physically abusive techniques. They do, however, subject the dog to domination to get what they want, which can cause emotional trauma for the dog. Again, it can be effective and get immediate results, but dominance techniques in the hands of non-professionals can get a person bit. It gets a lot of trainers bit, too. 

I was personally hospitalized for a bite after working with a dog who had been trained with dominance techniques by another trainer, and became extremely violent as a result. The dog was friendly before the trainer got a hold of him.

     Many trainers understand the problems with alpha theory, so they’ve opted to use force-free, positive-only methods. Tools like clickers, treats, and words of encouragement are used to make the learning experience for dogs fun and rewarding. 

Positive-only training is a wonderful, emotionally supportive method of dog training. Just like dominance and aversive training, though,it doesn’t always work, especially with dogs who show signs of aggression. 

Many positive-only trainers won’t even work with a dog who may be dangerous or reactive. This has been a key issue for some trainers, who have decided to use a mixture of positive and negative reinforcement for this issue. They call themselves balanced trainers. Many will use aversive tools like e-collars for extreme behavior issues, which have been proven to cause emotional, and even physical harm. (7

There is a third, much more effective option that can be used, which is called holistic or secure attachment-based training. It works beautifully for all different behavior issues, including aggression, for all breeds large and small. 

Holistic training can help you to establish trust and a secure attachment relationship with your dogs. Emotions, energy, and health are all involved in creating and maintaining a positive human/dog relationship.  

I’ve personally used all three of these methods during my evolution as a trainer. I started with aversive conditioning based on alpha theory, then after realizing quickly that hurting dogs either physically or emotionally  was not an option for me(I am an abuse survivor), I worked my way up to relationship based training. 

Over the years I’ve helped hundreds, if not thousands of dogs (I’ve lost count!) who were scheduled for euthanasia or going to be surrendered because of behavior issues. I work with the dogs other trainers believe can’t be helped. I’m successful because I understand that the thing dogs desire the most is a healthy, loving relationship with owners who understand and support their emotional and physical needs. 

Dogs don’t dominate each other in the wild to get what they want, like alpha theory suggests. They play, work, love, and fight, just like we do. They happily respond to authority when it benefits them. They work together as a team to get the job done. 

Alpha theory needs to go away, and it’s my mission to shift consciousness around how we treat our best and most faithful friends. If you want to be a part of the solution, please visit my website holisticdogtraining.org for more information. 



  1. http://davemech.org/wolf-news-and-information/schenkels-classic-wolf-behavior-study-available-in-english/

  2. https://www.amazon.com/Wolf-Ecology-Behavior-Endangered-Species/dp/0816610266

  3. https://www.whole-dog-journal.com/training/kinder-than-a-monk/

  4. https://www.whole-dog-journal.com/training/kinder-than-a-monk/

  5. https://wolf.org/wolf-info/wild-kids/wolf-families/

  6. https://www.bbc.com/news/science-environment-45875974

  7. https://www.holisticdogtraining.org/blog/the-truth-about-aversive-training-collars


Old believes about dominance hierarchy have been replaced with complex non linear family hierarchy models that are similar to human family systems.

Old believes about dominance hierarchy have been replaced with complex non linear family hierarchy models that are similar to human family systems.